Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Build Your Self Esteem To Last Forever

“Believe in your dreams and they may come true; believe in yourself and they will come true” - Unknown
Self-esteem is the way you judge and look at yourself.  Some people believe that their appearance will enhance their level of self-esteem, but in reality, having high self-esteem comes from the ability to see yourself special and unique all the time.
Do you see yourself as special and unique?  Do you have high self-esteem?  Do you love yourself? No?

Here is a quick 5 step guide to build self esteem when you forget how great you are:
1.  Believe in your inner beauty. Don’t say to yourself that you are not beautiful nor unique.  Know that every person is unique and true gift to the world.  There is no one on earth like you and you have a lot to offer to humanity.
2.  Believe in your mind power. Know that the way you see yourself comes from the power of your thoughts and mind.  Use your mind power and the power of your thoughts to develop love for yourself.  Once you begin to see yourself as unique, people around you will begin to see you in the same way.
3.  Focus on your positive qualities. You have to realize that you as a human being have good and positive qualities, so begin to focus on what you have going for you instead of focusing on your negative qualities.  Always surround yourself with people who think you are beautiful and who enjoy your company and your positive qualities.  Focusing on your positive attributes and surrounding yourself with positive friends will help you better accept yourself and hence build your self esteem.
4.  Overcome your negative habits. If you have a negative habit that you don’t like, make plans to get rid of it.  Once you substitute your negative habit with a positive one, your self-esteem will improve.
5.  Compliment yourself. Compliment yourself on what you like about your looks, your positive attributes, and every time you do something right and nice for yourself and others.  Do this each and every day until it becomes a habit.

Always remember what Anna Freud said, “I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time.”

29 comments:

  1. Number four will change you into a better man!

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  2. good tips, they will help.

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  3. I agree. Number one is best

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  4. It is not an easy process. If you can do it, your life will definitely improve.

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  5. number 3 will change you :)

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  6. I totally agree with 4. It' s rough progress to get rid of your bad habits, but you feel much better afterwards! Don' t do things you don' t like about yourself.

    Don't care about what other's think about you. It's your life after all, do what you want to do!

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  7. Very nice post. This can help, but sometimes environment kills our self esteem so this tips seems to not help :)
    That all depends how someone is strong :)

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  8. Nice post, makes you think alot.

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  9. good post, keep on writing

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  10. I think that some people are truely helped by your advice !!

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  11. these are some great tips

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  12. Good shit.. Good shit

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  13. Excellent post, very informative and the information is very useful.

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  14. Before you do anything in life, you must learn how to love yourself...in order to that you must have the mind power.

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  15. this is something that should be introduced to kids

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  16. Thanks for that post. I enjoyed reading it. Insightful

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  17. Thank you for it man !

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  18. all these tip are very important! thx for sharing them ;)

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  19. and never give up on giving up.
    carl my doctor talking about cigarettes.

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  20. number 4 is by far the hardest

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  21. Nobody should forget how awesome they are.

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  22. Pretty good advice. I think everyone could use a little more self esteem.

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  23. I'm glad I already follow these

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  24. Hmm at what point does my confidence in myself become arrogance or egotism? :(

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  25. i need to work on the oversoming habits one

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  26. Compliment yourself, i like that =pP

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  27. doesn't that just make you shallow?

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  28. i'd say number 2 is best

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